Well, my b-day is in a few short days and I can't decide how I feel about it. Am I sad because I am another year older and still alone? Am I happy because I am another year older and still alone? Who the hell knows? All I know is that I am another year older and still alone.
Most of the time I am okay with being single and right now is truly no exception to that rule, except for one thing.....MY SISTER. She is determined that I find a man soon so she can have another baby in the family. The way she carries on you would think that my having a baby is the single most important thing in her life, the one thing that keeps her going, that gets her up in the morning. I don't get it.
It's not like she got a charmer of a man. He has definitely changed for the better but he most certainly is not God's gift to women. And as much as I love my niece and nephew, she has her hands full. So, why would I want to trade in my single life for a whole new set of problems. I kinda like the ones I got now. I know how to handle them, ya know what I mean?
On the other hand I think, maybe it is time for me to settle down and begin a family. After all I am definitely not getting any younger. But I am just not willing to settle. I don't need a man to take care of me. I am perfectly able to take care of myself, I have done a pretty decent job for the past 16 years if I do say so myself. I wanna man to share my life with....... so until I find that one I am going to keep on riding this wave that I am on. Take that little Sis!!!! Another year older AND STILL ALONE.
Happy week to everyone!!!!
Most of the time I am okay with being single and right now is truly no exception to that rule, except for one thing.....MY SISTER. She is determined that I find a man soon so she can have another baby in the family. The way she carries on you would think that my having a baby is the single most important thing in her life, the one thing that keeps her going, that gets her up in the morning. I don't get it.
It's not like she got a charmer of a man. He has definitely changed for the better but he most certainly is not God's gift to women. And as much as I love my niece and nephew, she has her hands full. So, why would I want to trade in my single life for a whole new set of problems. I kinda like the ones I got now. I know how to handle them, ya know what I mean?
On the other hand I think, maybe it is time for me to settle down and begin a family. After all I am definitely not getting any younger. But I am just not willing to settle. I don't need a man to take care of me. I am perfectly able to take care of myself, I have done a pretty decent job for the past 16 years if I do say so myself. I wanna man to share my life with....... so until I find that one I am going to keep on riding this wave that I am on. Take that little Sis!!!! Another year older AND STILL ALONE.
Happy week to everyone!!!!
2 Comments:
I had an aunt like that... After me and all my other siblings to get married and have tons of babies...
Welcome to the club. My mother threatened to mess with my birth control in my boy and I didn't get with the program. She is now not allowed to wander unattended!!
Can't wait for Saturday!!
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